Distressing experiences don’t always stay in the past. Sometimes the body and nervous system hold onto trauma, stress, painful memories or maladaptive core beliefs in ways that make you feel “stuck.” You may notice big emotional reactions, negative beliefs about yourself, or patterns that make no sense logically—but feel overwhelming in the moment. EMDR therapy helps the brain process what hasn’t been resolved, so you can respond based on the present, not the past.

What is EMDR?

Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is an evidence-based therapy recognized by the World Health Organization (WHO), the American Psychological Association (APA), and the Department of Veterans Affairs. According to EMDRIA, EMDR helps the brain reprocess stuck or overwhelming experiences so the nervous system can return to a more adaptive, regulated state.

Instead of only talking about what happened, EMDR works with the brain’s natural healing process. Using bilateral stimulation—such as eye movements, tapping, or hand buzzers, we support the brain in rewriting the meaning of distressing memories and reducing the emotional and physical activation connected to them. The memory isn’t erased; the goal is to stop it from feeling like a threat.

How EMDR Helps

Traumatic or stressful events can get “frozen” in the nervous system. When that happens, everyday situations can trigger the same emotions, beliefs, or body sensations as the original moment—leading to anxiety, shame, avoidance, self-criticism, or conflict in relationships.

EMDR helps by:

• Decreasing emotional intensity connected to painful memories

• Reducing triggers and reactive responses

• Strengthening new, adaptive beliefs (for example, shifting from “I’m not safe” to “I can protect myself” or “I’m not good enough” to “I am worthy”)

• Helping the body feel calmer, safer, and more grounded

With reprocessing, clients often notice that situations that used to feel overwhelming start to feel manageable—and their nervous system responds with more ease instead of survival mode.

What EMDR Can Support

EMDR is well-supported for trauma, PTSD, anxiety, panic, guilt, shame, attachment wounds, chronic self-criticism, and experiences that feel “small” but still won’t let go—like past relationships, childhood memories, moments of embarrassment, or medical trauma.

If you’ve ever felt like “I should be over this by now,” EMDR can help the brain do what talking alone sometimes can’t.

A Body and Nervous-System Based Approach

EMDR recognizes that trauma isn’t just a story; it’s a nervous system response. You might logically understand that you’re safe, loved, or cared for, but still feel fear, tension, or self-doubt in your body. EMDR works directly with the brain-body connection, helping you feel the safety that you already know is true.

For clients who struggle with eating disorders, body image, or chronic self-criticism, EMDR can be especially supportive. Many of those patterns develop as ways to cope with pain or threats from the past. When the original wound heals, the coping becomes less necessary and your relationship with yourself can soften.

Moving Forward With More Freedom

You don’t have to keep reliving the same stories, reactions, or beliefs. EMDR offers a path toward relief that is grounded, research-supported, and focused on real change, not just insight.

Together, we’ll work in a way that feels steady and regulated, at your pace. You’ll never be pushed to re-experience trauma, you’ll stay grounded in the present while processing the past.

Healing is possible, and you don’t have to do it alone.

How EMDR and Parts Work Can Work Together

Many clients notice that different “parts” of them show up during trauma, stress, or relationships:

• A part that’s anxious

• A part that’s protective

• A part that feels small or overwhelmed

• A part that wants to avoid any discomfort

Internal Family Systems (IFS) helps us get curious about those parts instead of judging them. Every part is trying to protect you in the best way it knows how, even if its strategies feel painful or confusing.

When EMDR and IFS are combined:

• EMDR helps the nervous system process the original wound or memory

• IFS helps each part feel seen, understood, and included — not pushed away

• You gain insight and compassion for yourself, rather than feeling “broken” or “too much”

For example:

• If a part shuts down during conflict, we might use IFS to understand why that part feels unsafe

• Then EMDR can help reprocess the memory that taught your nervous system to shut down in the first place

• Over time, the part doesn’t have to work so hard to protect you

Together, these approaches reduce emotional intensity, soften reactive responses, and help you feel more regulated and intentional—rather than overwhelmed or stuck.